Few of the wedding details are as anxiety provoking as flowers. Yet flowers play a big part in setting the mood and tone of your wedding. Flowers, like any accessory item, should highlight and compliment the attire of the bride and the bridal party.

A good florist will get most of her ideas from listening to the bride's visions and dreams. Visit the florist with an idea of what you have in mind and leave the details to the professionals. Florists can provide you with a wealth of advice and information including the availability of seasonal blooms, color combinations, longevity of certain flowers and the special symbolism attached to particular varieties.

Whatever budget you have, a floral designer or florist can provide you with alternatives in your price range. Fresh flowers, silks, live plants... whatever floral designs you chose will surely add color and style to your special day if you begin with these pointers:

• Bring pictures, clippings from magazines, swatches of fabric with you.
• Consider a buffet reception rather than a sit down dinner if the cost of centerpieces is a concern. You'll need only one focal point and a few smaller accent pieces.
• White roses are seasonless and available year-round.
• Don't forget to include stephanotis, a symbol of good luck on your wedding day.
• Make use of your bouquet and those of your attendants as the floral accents for the head table during your reception.
• Select flowers to suit your personality.
• Make sure you love your choices.
• Trust your florist.