One of the most useful and free services available to bridal couples is the bridal registry. Just about every type of store, from bed and bath specialty stores to department stores and home improvement centers, now offers this valuable service, which has become quite high tech in these modern days of computerization.

The cost of setting up a new home is very high. To ensure you receive the gifts you really want, avoid duplications and make gift giving easier for your guests, register your gift preferences in a bridal/gift registry. Bridal registries often offer additional services such as shipping to further simplify things.

You should register for gifts as soon as possible after your engagement has been announced. That way, guests can purchase gifts from your registry for pre-wedding events like showers and engagement parties. Today it is possible to register for just about anything, from the traditional china, crystal and flatware to large appliances like televisions, cameras and even luggage. Rely on the expertise and advice of your bridal consultant. They usually are aware of trends, know what is available, and can help to guide you and coordinate your choices.

You will need some time to think over your future needs and preferences so look through brochures and catalogues before you visit your store. The entire registration process can take several hours. Be prepared! When you go to register, take into consideration the size of your wedding. If your wedding is small, register only for the most essential items and things you really want. If your wedding is larger, you can register for more. Showers and engagement parties usually call for a smaller gift. You may want to include items at every price point, big-ticket items as well as more modest choices.

When coordinating your tabletop ensemble, it is important to balance your three primary patterns; china, crystal and flatware. They should complement, not overwhelm one another. Try mixing simple china patterns with ornate crystal or flatware patterns and vice-versa. If you choose two ornate patterns, choose a third with simple, clean lines, to balance the setting. Go to a store where you can actually touch the china and place it on a table, see what it will look like with your flatware, and crystal. Place settings will look different on a shelf or in color photographs. Items that you may love individually may not complement one another. Be sure to see your place setting, all three components placed on a table, as they will be used.

As with your wardrobe, accessories can make all the difference. The completeness of your table will depend on how well you coordinate the three primary patterns with the accessories you choose. With a versatile stock of tabletop accessories such as serving pieces, candlesticks, bowls, vases, salt and pepper shakers and a transitional china pattern, you can create several desired looks and will be prepared for any entertainment situation and will enjoy a lifetime of entertaining options. Think carefully about your accessories and include them in your registry.

Getting married is a pleasure that comes once in a lifetime. Don't be afraid to be creative, adding your personal touch to an age-old ceremony. Remember, you are furnishing your first home as a married couple. Now doesn't that deserve the utmost care and attention?